ATTENTION: ADULTS WITH ADHD & NON-ADHD PARTNERS


Discover How You're Self-Sabotaging

blocking your Actions from meeting your Intentions

Origin of the Saboteurs


Saboteurs start off as our guardians to help us survive the real and imagined threats to our physical and emotional survival as children. By the time we are adults, we no longer need them, but they have become invisible inhabitants of our mind.

Our Saboteurs’ patterns of thinking, feeling, and reacting become soft-coded in our brain through neural pathways. When these neural pathways are triggered, we are “hijacked” by our Saboteurs and feel, think, and act using their patterns.

Saboteurs Stop You From Getting What You Want...

Your Saboteurs claim they are good for you. For example, your Judge tells you that its constant badgering over your mistakes and shortcomings cause you to improve and achieve.

It is true that your Saboteurs have successfully PUSHED you to improve and succeed through fear, anxiety, blame, shame, guilt, etc. (Negative Reinforcement). 

However, research shows that you would succeed even more if you were PULLED by you inherent positive feelings of curiosity, compassion, creativity, love for yourself and others, and love for contribution and self expression (Positive Reinforcement) AND, you would be far happier and less stressed.

*The Saboteur Assessment was created by Shirzad Chamine and is based on his

New York Times bestseller and Stanford lectures.

Research included 500,000 participants, world class athletes, and leaders from every Fortune 100 company.

Where Your True Power Lies...


You are truly in your power when you tap into your "Sage"

Unlike your " Saboteur" your “Sage” lives in an entirely different region of your brain and handles challenges in ways that produce positive emotions like curiosity, empathy, creativity, calm, and clear-headed laser-focused action.

When you are in your Sage brain, you perform better and feel happier. When your Saboteurs are in charge, you feel as if you are dragging heavy boulders and battling for every step forward.  Weakening the Saboteurs that are getting in the way of accomplishing your goals and strengthening your Sage is critical to living your best life. 

How to Weaken Your Saboteurs with Mental Fitness...


Saboteurs react to challenges in ways that generate negative emotions such as stress, disappointment, self-doubt, regret, anger, shame, guilt, or worry.

Your Sage handles challenges through positive emotions like empathy, gratitude, curiosity, creativity, self-confidence, and calm, clear-headed, laser-focused action.

What will be different for you when you start operating more from your Sage?

When You Take The Free Assessment You'll Learn...

Which Top Sabatouer is  likely Sabotaging your career, your relationships and your quality of life!

Controller

Anxiety-based need to take charge and control situations and people’s actions to one’s own will. High anxiety and impatience when that is not possible.

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The Judge

Finds faults with self, others, and circumstances. Causes much of our disappointment, anger, regret, guilt, shame, and anxiety. 

Avoider

Focusing on the positive and pleasant in an extreme way. Avoiding difficult and unpleasant tasks and conflicts.

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Hyper-Rational

Intense and exclusive focus on the rational processing of everything, including relationships. Can be perceived as cold, distant, and intellectually arrogant.

Hyper-Vigilant

Continuous intense anxiety about all the dangers and what could go wrong. Vigilance that can never rest.

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Stickler 

Perfectionism and a need for order and organization taken too far.

Victim

Emotional and temperamental as a way to gain attention and affection. An extreme focus on internal feelings, particularly painful ones. Martyr streak.

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Hyper-Achiever

Dependent on constant performance and achievement for self-respect and self-validation. Highly focused on external success, leading to unsustainable workaholic tendencies and loss of touch with deeper emotional and relationship needs

Restless

Restless, constantly in search of greater excitement in the next activity or constant busyness. Rarely at peace or content with the current activity.

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Pleaser

Indirectly tries to gain acceptance and affection by helping, pleasing, rescuing, or flattering others. Loses sight of own needs and becomes resentful as a result.

How would your life be right now if you didn't allow your Saboteurs to self-sabotage you?

Kimber Nelson

Founder of ADHD Partners

About your ADHD Mental Fitness Coach

My name is Kimber and it is a pleasure to virtually meet you.

I have been coaching Non-ADHD Partners and Adults and Colleges Students with ADHD since 2009. My coaching certifications come from the Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching in Energy Leadership and Core Energy coaching. I also trained with Jodi Sleeper-Triplett on Coaching Teens & College Students at JST Coaching & Training and spent several years as a JST trainer helping other coaches develop skills in ADHD Coaching.

My book is called  ADHD Partners: The Path to Embracing Life and Awakening Personal Power and I am published in ADHD Report. I am excited to share the power of Positive Intelligence integrated into the tactical strategies of ADHD & Non-ADHD Partner Coaching. I am looking forward to sharing it with you!

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